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by God of Vampires » Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:35 am
There is a pretty obvious reason in addition to his lack of physical development why Eli has pretty much no intrest in sex. Just ask any other eunuch. Add in way too much time dealing with pedophiles and it is obvious why he might have a negative impression of sexuality.
I think the novel brings up a good contrast between the relationship of Oskar and Eli and Håkan and Eli. While the relationship of Oskar and Eli transcend physical attraction, Håkan and Eli is one of the most toxic relationships I have ever seen, even beyond the fact Håkan is a pedophile. This is for one primary reason, bnoth parts just use eachother to get what they want and neither really wants to do what the other want. Yes, I did just say both parts is at fault here, while Håkans loyalty to Eli cannot be disputed(It takes alot of loyalty to willingly pour acid over your face), yet there is a certain amount of selfishness in wanting certain favours from Eli with no concern for how he feels about it. Eli is not much better as Håkan is barely more than an means to an end, a weak willed and desperate man manipulated by an immortal vampire to do unspeakable acts so Eli does not have to. This type of relationship with both sides using the other was probably the only type of relationship Eli knew before Oskar. Something that must be kept in mind when considering Eli's view of relationships with anyone older than Oskar.
As for Oskar and Eli, well, first reading the book during my teen years has shaped my view of relationships as well. Something that can be noticed in me having dated a few pre op transgirls despite being straight. Yes, the sexual aspect of the relationship does not really work, but it is still possible to have a functional relationship. Sex is in my view a wonderful thing in the right circumstances, but it is not strictly neccesary for a relationship. I do feel too many men are too obsessed with genders, a reason while many do call me gay, not being able to comprehend me dating someone I am not sexually attracted to.
"I think Eli, just as me, is a fan of multicoloured equines. You need this to get through an eternity of bloodshed."
_God of Vampires/Prince Darkmoon, Proud infected, proud brony.